“Sometimes, even when we do the scary thing, the brave thing, it still doesn’t work out.” That excerpt from Lynn Cowell’s Proverbs 31 ministries devotion today stood out to me and hit home. She was talking about courage and bravery and learning not to quit.
In moments in my life lately, I have really been tempted to quit and give up. I have gone through significant disappointments and hard times and people hurting me and letting me down. Lynn goes on to say in her devotion, “difficult times in our lives can be the exact opportunities we need to learn not to quit. Here, we learn to be brave and to do the hard things again and again and again. In the tough places, we can learn that our God is faithful to help us; He will never leave or forsake us.” I agree, and that was a much needed word of encouragement today.
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Since it is only at Starbucks for a limited time, if you want to try it, it may be good to get it before it is gone!!!
Do you ever feel overlooked? Do you ever feel unseen, perhaps by your boss or with a promotion, in dating, or even by your spouse? The human heart longs for connection, understanding, and to be known. We want to be loved and valued for who we are, not necessarily for what we do. It can hurt emotionally to have those closest to us misunderstand us or say unkind things about us or our character.
Biblically speaking, there is a woman whose story is often overlooked in the Bible. Many people know the stories of David against Goliath, Noah and the ark, or Moses and the Ten Commandments. Sometimes women of the Bible and their stories can be overlooked by the church and Christianity, and that is where I want to give a special shout-out to author and speaker Liz Curtis Higgs. When I worked at a Christian bookstore, her books were often on our Top 20 wall. I have always wanted to read something by her, but I actually never have until recently. Higgs seems to have a heart for women and stories of women in the Bible in particular and what we can learn from them. She has authored books like Bad Girls of the Bible, Really Bad Girls of the Bible, Unveiling Mary Magdalene, and Slightly Bad Girls of the Bible. I found Slightly Bad Girls of the Bible at my local library recently, and I have been blessed by her wise insights and Biblical depth as I have been reading it. She inspired me to write a short devotional about Hagar on my blog.
Hagar is a woman of the Bible who I speculate is likely not mentioned by many Bible pastors, priests, or teachers. I think this is unfortunate, because Hagar is someone that many women can identify with. She did not have the perfect life. Hagar was an Egyptian maidservant to Sarai (later named Sarah), and she was given by Sarai to Sarai’s husband Abram (later named Abraham), to become another wife to him and have a child by him because Sarai was barren. Abram went along with this plan, and he slept with Hagar and she became pregnant. Hagar was in what most people would consider an extremely uncomfortable situation, to put it mildly (Genesis 16: 1-4).
I will sidestep the hot coal about why Old Testament times allowed men to have more than one wife, because that is something that I honestly do not totally understand. I think that most people today will agree that having more than one wife in a home, or more than one husband, seems to be a total recipe for major problems, jealousy, and disaster. Sarai began to mistreat Hagar, and Abram looked the other way, even though Hagar was bearing his child and it was not right that she was mistreated, perhaps even abused. Hagar ran away, and it was there that the angel of the Lord found her and spoke to her (Genesis 16:4-8). The angel of the Lord spoke to her and said, “You are now with child and you will have a son. You shall name him Ishmael, for the Lord has heard of your misery.” My Bible footnote says that Ishmael means “God hears.” Then Hagar actually gave God a name and said: “You are the God who sees me.” (Genesis 16:11- 13). Liz Curtis Higgs elaborates on this well with modern day applications for us when she says, “It’s reassuring to know our suffering never escapes his notice. God sees and God hears. Hears our muffled sobs late at night. Hears our whispered pleas in doctors’ waiting rooms…What comfort, knowing we are loved by a God who listens”(Higgs, 2007, p. 51).
May we know that God cares for us and hears us, just like he did for Hagar long ago. He cares what you are going through and about the hurt in your heart.
Higgs, L.C. (2007). Slightly Bad Girls of the Bible. Colorado Springs, Colorado: WaterBrook Press.
Holy Bible, New International Version, (1973). International Bible Society: Zondervan.
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Poet’s note: I published this poem on 4/4/17. I want to share it here, as well. If you are looking to read more of my poetry, please feel free to check out https://www.poemhunter.com/julie-a-smith/. I publish additional poetry there that is not all published on my personal blog.
I broke up with you
exactly one month ago.
I had peace with my decision,
but I didn’t want to hurt you.
But then you hurt me so badly.
It was an amazingly amicable break-up.
We both agreed that it was for the best.
You even said how you likely
would have broken up with me
in a few days since you felt that way, too.
But then I couldn’t believe that you
unfriended me on Facebook
a few days after our break-up.
You never told me
and left me to find out the hard way.
We had been friends for years.
Ten to be exact.
I could not believe that you would do that,
and then totally freeze me out
and cut off communication entirely.
I am definitely not perfect,
but I deserve better than that.
about being friends with guys.
Sometimes it is harder than being friends with girls
for obvious reasons.
I let you in
which I don’t always do
and it ended up
seriously harming a friendship
and hurting my heart.
that there is still a guy out there
who will treat me tenderly
and cherish my healing heart
but sometimes that seems
so far away.
sooner rather then later
that vulnerable hope
will come true.
A rainy day
full of fog and a dreary feel
even though the temperature
is a pleasant 43 degrees outside,
and I am enjoying my three day weekend
since I took an extra day off work
for my birthday weekend.
Sipping my caramel latte
and trying to find inspiration to write.
and a writing dry spell
combine to stop my pen
and my poetry.
The gray skies
but somehow that
on this rainy February day.
With the Chicago Cubs winning the World Series last night 8-7 over the Cleveland Indians, it truly is a testimony to dreamers! It reminds me to never give up on the dreams that God has put in your heart. Some may take years to come to pass, but take heart that it likely won’t be the 108 years that is took since the Cubs last won the World Series. Hard times come to every household, but in life it is important to never lose hope or faith.
I grew up in Illinois and have lived here all my life, and my Grandpa used to be a huge Cubs fan. I always root for Illinois teams, and like many people I have come to expect the Cubs to lose. They are loveable underdogs. But it is new season of excitement and fresh life and new beginnings, and with the Cubs winning the World Series, it has taught me to not give up on your dreams no matter how long they take to come to pass.